Zhuāi (拽)

Zhuāi (拽):«when we get married, we sing zhuai, because we Bulang people do not have our own writing, so we can use oral transmission, we sing zhuai to bless the groom and the bride. We use zhuai to educate the grooms to respect her wives and follow the rules, not to be disrespectful to their wives, and the brides not to be disrespectful to their husbands. If you are married, you need to keep your husband and follow the rules respecting each other. We use zhuai to bless them, to educate them to conjugal love, and grow old together» (Yu Kan La, personal communication, Manxi village, 2017).